The very first thing you should know that without expressing, you cannot achieve anything great. And now if you or your partner or wife is not getting anything extra on bed then this means something is wrong. Try to be more adventurous with your wife, make her happy without any reason, buy something for her online and gift her like vibrator, handcuffs etc. You will get many of such kind of things. Doing this can attract your partner towards you and you will also feel desired by your partner. All in whole, you have to step outside and try some new things that can bring happiness and excitement in both life. I am assuring you will get your partner as before as she will follow you.